#5 Pot, porn and pleasure. When is it too much?

PSST.. look over here! If you’re over 60, female widow, divorced or living single, or if you’re none of those things but want to know what the hell I’m up to over here… read on.

5. I could say a lot about the three p’s: pot, porn and pleasure but most of it’s been said at some point by somebody, so I’ll stick to my personal experience with each… in bed.

Pot. If you’re not an old smoking pro at this point in life, it’s not too late to start. It can really enhance physical pleasure. But take it slow. Too much of an edible can render you immobile; eating too much magic chocolate bar sneaks up on the brain. Practice and nibble. My preferred method for getting high is pot by bong. Just enough of a Cheech and Chong hit to help get in the right groove. Oh. Beware of another thing. Uncontrolled laughing. Not every sexual partner thinks sex is hysterically funny. I prefer to think of it as joy laughing, but I get it and try and control the impulse when stoned and in bed. Another benefit I’ve noticed is that my blood pressure takes a dip when under the influence; alleviating occasional worries about getting too excited and having a stroke.

Porn. There’s a lot of free wheelin’ freaky sex available on line for everyone’s viewing pleasure. At first, when viewed together, porn can be a useful mood-setter; think video foreplay. But eventually out comes the internal movie critic. Hey, these guys aren’t great actors! The sets are unimaginative; plot lines are few and far between. This is a medium catering to sexually depraved teen age boys. Porn central is so close to Hollywood, too; so disappointing. Porn is just one tool in the sexy kit. When we choose it, I’m always sure to turn off the sound and replace it with some good tunes. There is no video match for what I can create in my own head with the right music playing.

Side note: If you become disturbed by images of bad actors having fake sex or somehow want to get serious about it, may I suggest googling ‘ethical porn’. This is really a thing, created by women, of course. It’s worth mentioning that porn is about the only industry where, even at its worst, women performers are paid more than men for the same job.

Pleasure. Our bodies are amazing sensual machines. Pleasure is not a limited resource. It doesn’t wear out so no need to be stingy sharing it, or even giving it to yourself! More on this later.

Next up: Practicing the rhythm method

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